It’s been a while since I’ve spoken about “Overcoming the Fear of Speaking Up or Public Speaking.” I believe all of us want to use our voice for something. Without fear, we would be speaking our truth and advocating for ourselves. We want to use our voice. I’ve never heard of someone telling me “no, […]

I hate to be the deliverer of cold hard truth, but I promise, read till the end and you’ll realise this is good news. We’re living in a time where simply having adequate skillset and knowledge is no longer enough in this world. Someone else with the same skillsets can be hired in your place, […]

For the past 2 days I have been…. Starting the journey of upgrading myself as a coach! Getting my International Coaching Federation (ICF) coaching certification. 2 full days of training, peer-to-peer coaching practice, and meeting amazing course-mates from various professions and wealth of life experience. I’ve fallen even deeper in love with coaching. To study […]

“I’m indecisive. I’m terrible at making decisions.” I felt this about myself for the longest time. It is the decisions that seem utterly life-changing that torment me. Which university course to choose? Should I stay or leave a business partnership that feels misaligned to me yet very beneficial to my career? Do I stay persistent […]

I’ve a confession – and this one is something I do beat myself up for sometimes. One of my fears is being seen as irresponsible / flaky when it comes to the content I “promise to create”. 2.5 years ago in the midst of the pandemic I declared I was going to do a regular […]

We tell ourselves “I need to have more experience to earn the right to speak up” or “I’m just not a speak on video kind of person” or “I’m just not good at speaking” — we learn these beliefs from our experiences and they rule our life. The first step to healing and growth is […]

15 year old Rae could never imagine that she’d be producing and hosting her own talkshow now, speaking on bigger stages, and have the honour to share her journey. I grew up being the insecure kid who would hide her voice away. I got average grades at best, and to me, only the smart kids […]

“I’m just tired” — that’s the response I get from most young people when I ask them how they are doing. Either that or I can see it on their faces so clearly – they look exhausted. As I speak to more people who are in different phases of life, I start seeing a trend […]

You may also watch this episode on YouTube here. In this episode, we’re going to talk about this one thing you have that NO ONE ELSE in the world has: YOUR STORY. No matter how much better you think others can be (which I’m sure they are, because there will always be someone better…), YOU […]

You may also watch this episode on YouTube here Do you feel like you don’t have enough experience to use your voice? Have you ever thought “Let me learn more till I reach ‘there’, then I can contribute my ideas, then I can give people advice”. Well, this is for you. Your voice has so […]

I spent a whole month so far in a country halfway across the world from me, where I know NOBODY except my partner, who works 9-6 as a stop motion animator. So… I found myself gently placed outside my comfort zone of Singapore, a country where you’ll probably meet at least one person you know […]

Is it a “man” thing? Is it a generation thing? My dad shared with me that he’s trying to find a group of “inner circle” to hang out with and be there for each other through challenges. Yet, he’s noticed that conversations with his friends never go beyond surface level. Here are 3 things I […]