How does love feel like? I ask myself this question quite often, maybe because I’ve always received acts of love, but rarely experience the feeling of love itself. I see my dad cook dinner for us every single day, and go out of his way to buy back lunch, even if it’s inconvenient. My mom […]

Let me tell you the story of the time I bypassed by own voice and inner knowing to follow someone else’s advice. Actually, it has been 2 times. And it caused me a whole lot of suffering… but resulted in a whole lot of learning. When I was 20, I met my first mentor, and […]

Transiting into Adulthood: A LONELY JOURNEY – or really? Yes and No. I’ve noticed that for some people, they feel lonelier as they transition into adulthood. Many say that Entrepreneurship is a lonely journey – is this really true? My journey as an entrepreneur started at 20. For 3 years, I did all I could […]

Did you know that I was once a soft-spoken girl full of self-doubt, that secretly had big dreams but didn’t think she could achieve them? I wanted to be an actress, a singer, wanted to own my own business and live life on my own terms. But I looked around and realised that the people […]

When I was younger, I was SUCH a try-hard. I wanted to be in the popular clique. I wanted to be liked and accepted. I tried so hard to speak and act like the cool kids. Deep down, I didn’t think I was good enough to have friends who loved me completely. As I delved […]

I’ve a confession – and this one is something I do beat myself up for sometimes. One of my fears is being seen as irresponsible / flaky when it comes to the content I “promise to create”. 2.5 years ago in the midst of the pandemic I declared I was going to do a regular […]

We tell ourselves “I need to have more experience to earn the right to speak up” or “I’m just not a speak on video kind of person” or “I’m just not good at speaking” — we learn these beliefs from our experiences and they rule our life. The first step to healing and growth is […]

I spent a whole month so far in a country halfway across the world from me, where I know NOBODY except my partner, who works 9-6 as a stop motion animator. So… I found myself gently placed outside my comfort zone of Singapore, a country where you’ll probably meet at least one person you know […]

Two weeks ago, I found myself at a private Oscars viewing party in Portland. This was me the entire night to anyone I am conversing with: “OMG EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE WON!!!! (not that I’m surprised)” Watching the Oscars live and witnessing history in the making just hits different. Not only is this film so magnificent, but […]

Is it a “man” thing? Is it a generation thing? My dad shared with me that he’s trying to find a group of “inner circle” to hang out with and be there for each other through challenges. Yet, he’s noticed that conversations with his friends never go beyond surface level. Here are 3 things I […]