Did you know that I was once a soft-spoken girl full of self-doubt, that secretly had big dreams but didn’t think she could achieve them? I wanted to be an actress, a singer, wanted to own my own business and live life on my own terms. But I looked around and realised that the people […]

When I was younger, I was SUCH a try-hard. I wanted to be in the popular clique. I wanted to be liked and accepted. I tried so hard to speak and act like the cool kids. Deep down, I didn’t think I was good enough to have friends who loved me completely. As I delved […]

I’ve a confession – and this one is something I do beat myself up for sometimes. One of my fears is being seen as irresponsible / flaky when it comes to the content I “promise to create”. 2.5 years ago in the midst of the pandemic I declared I was going to do a regular […]

We tell ourselves “I need to have more experience to earn the right to speak up” or “I’m just not a speak on video kind of person” or “I’m just not good at speaking” — we learn these beliefs from our experiences and they rule our life. The first step to healing and growth is […]

15 year old Rae could never imagine that she’d be producing and hosting her own talkshow now, speaking on bigger stages, and have the honour to share her journey. I grew up being the insecure kid who would hide her voice away. I got average grades at best, and to me, only the smart kids […]

“I’m just tired” — that’s the response I get from most young people when I ask them how they are doing. Either that or I can see it on their faces so clearly – they look exhausted. As I speak to more people who are in different phases of life, I start seeing a trend […]

44.6 degree celcius heat – That’s how hot it was in Thailand last weekend, and Thailand’s Meteorological Department warned that the heat will continue into the week. Hearing about this felt especially horrifying as I caught up with Andrea T. Edwards since she and her family is actually based in Thailand now. In fact, The Guardian […]

You may also watch this episode on YouTube here. In this episode, we’re going to talk about this one thing you have that NO ONE ELSE in the world has: YOUR STORY. No matter how much better you think others can be (which I’m sure they are, because there will always be someone better…), YOU […]

You may also watch this episode on YouTube here Do you feel like you don’t have enough experience to use your voice? Have you ever thought “Let me learn more till I reach ‘there’, then I can contribute my ideas, then I can give people advice”. Well, this is for you. Your voice has so […]

I spent a whole month so far in a country halfway across the world from me, where I know NOBODY except my partner, who works 9-6 as a stop motion animator. So… I found myself gently placed outside my comfort zone of Singapore, a country where you’ll probably meet at least one person you know […]

Two weeks ago, I found myself at a private Oscars viewing party in Portland. This was me the entire night to anyone I am conversing with: “OMG EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE WON!!!! (not that I’m surprised)” Watching the Oscars live and witnessing history in the making just hits different. Not only is this film so magnificent, but […]

Is it a “man” thing? Is it a generation thing? My dad shared with me that he’s trying to find a group of “inner circle” to hang out with and be there for each other through challenges. Yet, he’s noticed that conversations with his friends never go beyond surface level. Here are 3 things I […]

I hated my life and tried so hard to be somebody else. Now, I’m living the life of my dreams. Hello! This is my first ever blog post, so I thought hey — let me share with you how I came to do the work I do today.  When I was a little girl, I […]